Do not be so self-absorbed that you do not see the wonderful opportunities for happiness around you. The Four of Cups reminds us that gratitude is a critical element to every successful relationship. Another three cups lie at his feet, but he does not notice them either.
He is so engrossed in his own thoughts that he doesn’t notice an outstretched arm offering him a cup. This card shows a young man deep in reflection and meditation. The Four of Cups is the card of apathy, contemplation, disconnection, indifference, and boredom.
